Hostess Helper Guide

Hello Sharon here!  Thank You for hosting your Desires party with me!  I've already sent you a text/email to confirm our party date & time.  We are SET to go!  If you haven't booked yet and I sent you this link....what are you waiting for let's get a date!

Thank you for opening your home and sharing your time with me.  I am an experienced adult toy party consultant and you can expect great things from out up coming party.  Together, we can make this party a huge success.  The parties are free to host.  So please understand the sales are how I am compensated for my travel, time, prizes and FUN!

There are some great goodies in store for you (or a bride/birthday girl)!  The higher your party sales, the more FREE products you get!  You will receive your thank you gift at the beginning of the presentation, free spending credit based on sales, item discounts depending on the number of orders & future shopping credits for bookings from your party.  If anyone cannot attend your party, they can still order online at my shop, www.desireparties.com  They need to enter your name and party date into the comments section when checking out.  And, of course they can host their own party too!!

What You Can Expect From Me:

  • A FUN, professional, non-judgmental, enlightening, funny, memorable and educational product presentation that will last about 1hr15min. Including party games, too, of course!
  • A variety of quality and clean products will be shown and passed around the room. I show items for all experience-levels and all budgets.
  • Open communication – call/text me or email me anytime with any questions about your party. I’ll also be checking in with you from time to time until your party date.
  • Confidential and discreet ordering for you and your guests.
  • Payment methods I accept are any major credit cards, Paypal or cash.
  • I carry some inventory with me. Otherwise, I guarantee shipping that is very quick and discreet. 3-5 business days. Tracking is provided.
  • A generous hostess rewards program as shown above.

What I’ll Need From You:

  • Do invites! You know your guests best. Whether it’s a text invite, Facebook event, evite or similar. Ask me for a flyer image!
  • Aim for 15+ guests. That’s the magic number. With 15+ guests I will raffle over $100 in products.
  • Keep on top of the guest count. Send out reminders as we get closer to the party date, especially 2-3 days before. Remember to tell your guests to bring friends for a bigger turnout! It is most likely that one of your friends knows someone who has always wanted to come to one of these parties! If someone can’t attend and wants to place an order, send them to shop online at www.desireparties.com. They’ll need to enter your name into the comments when checking out.
  • This is strictly an 18 and older event. So, please, no one under 18, including infants. It’s the law!
  • I do not need a table I work out of bins.  It's easy and only takes a few minutes to set up. 
  • A private area for ordering is a good idea. Most hostesses choose a dining room, kitchen or bedroom/den.
  • Keep your food and drink options easy. I want you to enjoy the show too! Opt for finger foods and simple refreshments/cocktails (or a passion punch in a bowl or dispenser!) Check out my FOOD & DRINK
  • Please let me know if there are any changes to your booking, like date or time reschedule or location change, ASAP.


The three main things that will bring success to our party:

  1. Be Excited! Enthusiasm is contagious. If you show how excited you are, your guests will be excited too! We’re going to have fun games, fun sex ed and fun SHOPPING!  Be excited!
  2. Over Invite! Invite everyone you know and ask them to bring a friend or two. Everyone loves an invitation!! Great attendance will increase party sales, which will increase your free products! Plus, it’s more fun! The more, the merrier! My average attendee count is about 12-15 people. 
  3. Reminders and Follow Up – Be sure your guestlist has received their invitations and collect RSVPs. Later on, remind everyone about the party, especially the week of your party. I’ve learned that this makes a BIG difference in attendance.

More Tips:

  • I can make an invite – Send to your invitees or use it for ideas.
  • Remind guests that this is a shopping party. So let’s shop for sex toys and adult products! Sales are important to me since I’m compensated solely from commission PLUS you’ll definitely love the amount of free spending credit you get from it.
  • If you are hosting a bachelorette or birthday party, I will have bridal/birthday beads at the party for the guest of honor! The party guests can purchase beads for the bride or birthday gal.  She in returns uses the beads as cash towards her wish list at the party.  I will announce info about the beads prior to the demo, so that guests will know and can plan accordingly.  They will simply add the beads onto their order and gift them to the Bride.   No need to bring outside gifts, she will get plenty. 

     

     I’m looking forward to our party! Contact me for anything you may need. my cell is 386-677-1154 text welcome